A gift guide my nervous system loves

Winter is a season for rest and noticing.


This year, I noticed the everyday moments that truly nurture me… the rituals, the seasonal joys, the little things that calm my mind and bring me back to myself.

For this first gift guide, I’m only sharing things I’ve genuinely used and loved, alongside a few treats quietly on my own self-care wish list*. Thoughtful, minimal, and curated to support calmer mornings, gentle routines, and those everyday moments that make life feel most like yours.

I hope these ideas help you create space to breathe, notice, and enjoy the season, for yourself, or someone you care about.

*Includes affiliate links,

1. Neals Yard Pillow Mist - This is one of the most beautiful bedtime rituals I’ve ever had. I’ve always noticed how much scent has a positive impact on my wellbeing and never thought to take it to the bedroom. It’s something I’ll be continuing beyond hibernation season.

2. Inlight Bath Soak - I’m somebody who enjoys both a morning bath to ease into the day and a long, hot soak after a long day but this is not your typical bath salt. The moment I stepped into my first bath using these salts, I felt immediately soothed. The beautiful scents and how nourished my skin felt afterwards makes this perfect for my everything baths.

3. Toffee Brown Cashmere Socks - Any ‘Hygge’ loving or Traditional Chinese Medicine wellness girly will know to keep their feet warm and cosy… and what better way to do that than cashmere. Rosie Sugden's cashmere is gorgeous and I’ve been obsessed with this colour all season.

4. Sweet Bee Sweet Sleep - Another little bedtime ritual that feels genuinely soothing. If you prefer a calming moment over another supplement, this magnesium balm is such a gentle way to settle before sleep.

5. Fushi Organic Rosehip Oil - Rosehip oil is one of my favourite face oils to use with a gua sha, as it warms up beautifully, smells delightful and feels like the most grounding beauty ritual. I had a close friend gift me a trio of Fushi oils and I’ve loved them ever since. Affiliate link gets you 15% off.

6. Dragonfly Herbal Tea Collection - For those who love a nurturing drink, this herbal tea collection is a simple way to slow down. Perfect for gifting or for your own moments of calm and comfort. Affiliate code DANIELLA20 for 20% off.

7. The Evergreen Journal - This one is from my own wishlist and being released early December. I have come back to Lydia’s first ‘Evergreen’ book time and time again, on my journey to calmer living. It always inspires me to embrace the seasons. I’m so excited to get my hands on the journal version and I know it’s going to be one of quiet, supportive tools throughout 2026.

8. Handcrafted Matcha Kit - For the ladies in a season where drinking matcha feels better than coffee, this beautiful handcrafted kit by Newby completes your matcha ritual. This would be such a thoughtful gift for any matcha fan! I also love the taste of their matcha powder.

9. Ancient + Brave Cacao Collagen - This cacao collagen is my go-to for cozy mornings and cold winter evenings. For every hot chocolate lover, this cacao is full of nurturing ingredients and still tastes gorgeous. Affiliate code DANIELLA for 20% off.

10. Ancient + Brave Ritual Mug - For those with an obsession with ceramics the craftsmanship of this ritual mug is beautiful. Every drink I make now feels a little bit more special. It makes such a gorgeous gift. Affiliate code DANIELLA for 20% off.

11. Beeswax Tiny Taper Candle Set - TinyNorah have created the perfect wind down ritual. These mindfulness candles burn for 20 minutes to encourage quiet, peaceful moments. I started using them after my first baby, when I’d struggle to rest and calm my mind. This set makes a really meaningful gift to either you or somewhere you care for.

12. Organic Beeswax Candles - I appreciate the sustainable mission at Skär Organics, who have created the UK’s first & only certified organic beeswax candles. We love lighting the dinner candles to slow down and connect round the table through the darker evenings.

13. Brass Wave Matchbox Sleeve - Matilda Goad’s matchbox sleeve turns lighting a candle into a magical little ritual. It’s a beautiful, timeless gift for anyone who loves candles and can even be personalised. A must-have for those who cherish calm living and the quiet moments that make life feel most like theirs.

14. Sheepskin Hot Water Bottle - A sheepskin hot water bottle isn’t just cosy, it slows the whole evening down in the gentlest way. A small winter luxury that makes the season feel softer.